Ok, so as you all know already I was able to get my ex boyfriend back and while I have given some bits and pieces of what I did and didn’t do I wanted to do a post today giving you seven easy steps that anyone can follow which are almost guaranteed to work!
Just keep in mind, if you know exactly what to do you stand a great chance of getting your ex boyfriend back!
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Step 1
This first step is going to sound strange but you really need to decide whether you even want your ex boyfriend back. Are you feeling pain because you are in love and want him back or are you just scared of being alone? If you are sure you want your ex boyfriend back then you can continue on with the next few steps.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – Step 2
Spend some time reflecting back on why you broke up in the first place. Do you remember what exactly he said when you broke up? What kind of signs was he displaying in the days leading up to your break up? Did he indicate you were too clingy or maybe that you had in some way let yourself go? Was he hinting at wanting you to change? That last one is especially important because if he wants you to change you need to decide whether you are willing to change. I was lucky because I was able to get my ex boyfriend back without having to change much at all.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Step 3
Under no circumstance should you bug him. Sometimes we feel like we need to show our ex boyfriends how much we love them to get them back but do not text or call him a bunch of times or you run the risk of screwing your chances up. Instead, allow him some space so he can miss you. It allows him to evaluate his life without you and this is often when he will start to miss you the most. Now, if you attend the same school this doesn’t mean you should go out of your way to avoid him but certainly don’t chase him down.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – Step 4
Whenever a relationship ends the one of the first things that goes through girl’s heads is how to make their ex boyfriend jealous. Its tempting to flirt with his friends for example but more likely it will just make him angry and he might even think you’re acting slutty. Its better to stay clear of these types of manipulation.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Step 5
Try playing hard to get. The last thing you want is for him to think all he has to do is wiggle his finger and you’ll come running. After all guys love the chase so by all means give it to him.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Step 6
Don’t involve friends especially mutual ones. Often times we want to send a friend as a go between to find out what our guy if feeling or thinking. This is a bad idea as it really annoys most guys and could even make him feel uncomfortable if he is trying to explain how he feels to someone other than you. This is one mistake I made when I was trying to get my ex boyfriend back and it almost blew up in my face.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – Step 7
This is going to be the toughest one but should your ex boyfriend choose to date another girl do not be overly concerned. In most cases these rebound relationships are short lived anyway. I know it is tough but make yourself everything he could want in a girl. Get gorgeous, be fun, be happy, etc and soon he’ll leave his good time girl on the curb and come running back to you. Only this time, you’re going to have a little more control because he came calling not the other way around.
Now, girls, I’m not a relationship counselor and I didn’t start inventing all these techniques on my own. Quite the contrary, I actually grabbed a copy of Seduce Your Ex by Jason Collins to get my ex boyfriend back. I thought I’d heard it all until I read this guide.